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Break the Bias

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Woman, God's beautiful creation, with the ability to carry a human in her womb for 9 months and in her heart for the rest of her life. Motherhood is a priceless and divine gift that I received. But the sad truth is that your feathers will be cut and you will lose your ability to fly as a side effect of this divinity. After that, you will be judged if you aspire to fly again in your career. You will be perceived as being out of touch with current technology. Your sincerity and diligence will go unnoticed. People only see obstacles in your path when they look at you. Your lovely children will be portrayed as stumbling blocks. Is this, true? No. People's mindsets towards ladies, is the reason. This is the most common question I am asked when I am called in for an interview. 'Who will look after your children when you go to work?'. But I'm curious why they don't ask the same question of to a father. Both parents are responsible for their children's upbringing

When my feathers are cut

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Woman's day is again round the corner. Celebration of women with so much of glory and pride. But is the celebration done with an open heart? Woman, beautiful creation of God who got the ability to carry human in her womb for 9 months and in her heart for life long. Motherhood is the priceless and divine gift I got. But the sad truth I realized behind this divinity is that, your feathers will be cut and you will lose your ability to fly. After that, when you wants to fly again towards your career, you will be judged. You will be seen as outdated to current technologies. Your sincerity and hard work will be unnoticed. Only thing the people can see in you, is obstacles of your path. Your lovely children will be portrayed as obstacles. But is that truth? No. The truth is mindset of people. Whenever I get an interview call the most common question is this. Who will take care of your children when you come to work? But I wonder, why they don't ask a father the same ques

Never give up !!!

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Hi all,  this blog is about a thought that is going in my mind for some days??  Who is setting barrier for woman's growth.  Is it people around them or they themselves?? This is story of my friend,  Uma.  A bright student in school and college days, have dreamed about a bright future all the time.  And being a hard worker she was able to get into first step of her career.  She got recruited by a top level MNC. There also she shined with her brilliant performance and and secured best performer awards as well. But here comes the expected twist in her life.  You can guess it,  yup that is marriage. She got married to a decent guy of her parents choice and their life was going well.  From the next month of marriage our society will be eager to hear good news.  They are not bothered whether the couple are ready for it or not.  Due to some adverse situations and health conditions she lost 2 babies in womb itself. And people tagged herself as a woman who can't bear a

My mom my mentor

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This is untold story of determination I have seen in a woman. Her name is Jayanthi. Jayanthi was hardworking and studious girl from childhood. Very bright. Her ambition was to become a doctor and lead a service oriented life. At her age of 17, she topped the whole school and her teachers were so proud of her. Her Dad who was serving in police department, got retired. Jayanthi is third one of his four children. Because of shortage of income they was forced to stop her studies. She cried over her fate. But didn't blame her parents, coz she know it was tough decision for them as well. With the board exam certificate she searched all possible way to get into some job and help her parents. On her free time she did stitching. Years passed by. But luck didn't favour her. By age 21, her marriage got fixed with son of family friend. Handsome guy with descent job, more than that a person who believes in woman empowerment. Few months after marriage good news came. Yes, Jayanthi is pre

My Angel story

From our childhood onwards, we hear about story's about angels... And when we grow up and go through the hard part of our life we will loose our faith in God and those angels...And we conclude that angels doesn't exit at all... They are just stories, dreaming about which we grow up...           But do you people really think that angels are not there?? God has proved me wrong... Angels are there... I got my angel... my sweet heart... my sree kutty.... As a Cinderella story my life got changed in her presence... All my dreams and aspiration about my life is coming true :):)           Previous year this time, I had a complication in pregnancy and needed to undergo cesarean on my 6 and half months of my pregnancy... doctors were assuring my parents that nothing will happen ... But in operation theater I overheard conversation between my gynecologist and Anesthetist.. She was telling that my baby is dead in my womb and she wants to save my life... I don't know how i overcome

A mom from heaven

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Mom, this three letter word is something that is cherished by every woman. Nothing in the world can be replaced by the love of mother. People say mother is one who carry the baby in her womb for 9 months and in heart for lifetime. This is story of my aged friend who always dreamed of becoming a mother. Eagerly waited for her Angel to call her mom. I was 25 years old when I saw her first time. I got admitted in labor room due to preterm labor contractions. For me this baby was so precious since already I lost two in my womb itself. First time I didn't even knew I was pregnant. The screw of my company chair deceived me and it broke. I fell down on my back. Started bleeding and got admitted in hospital. There I came to know that I was carrying. My heart sank for a while.  I thought I missed the cycle since I had PCOS. I don't know how I lost my 2nd baby. Everything was fine for 1st three months. But on my third trimester check up baby's heart beat was stopped and I lost he

Daddy's Little Angel

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NS: This story is inspired from my friends life ‘Daddy, where are you?’ Little Payal is searching whole home for her father 'I am here dear’ Madhav replied. ' I am getting bored Daddy, Will you please play with me' 'What you wanna play my dear' 'Chess' the lil one replied Hearing the name of chess Madhav got anxious Seeing her husband face Maya started laughing. 'Arey my baby, why are you asking your dad to play chess with you. He don’t know the basics even. Maya giggled 'But daddy told he used to be a chess champion in school. And I should learn it', Payal replied Maya looked at Madhav questioningly Madhav replied, ‘I was trying to create interest for chess in her’ 'So daddy you lied to me. Mama you always tell na we will get punished if we tell lie. You give a suitable punishment for daddy also.', Payal demanded 'I agree with you dear’ Maya replied. ‘ Let dad cook today’s lunch.